Posted by pgy3 from IP 72.85.61.215 on June 29, 2008 at 21:12:48:
we had been married for 1 yr-hubby had a GF back in europe -they broke up in 2003 and hasnt seen each other-they still used to talk on the phone as friends till we got married-she sent an email that she was sad and will always miss him before we got married and i got mad-i feel like she is not over him-He said i should just trust him and that he is totally over her and old letters from her proves that too. She doesnt call since we were married. I called her once and told her to stay away and she said she wont bother us=
Now i found a letter she wrote in 2003 as we clean old books and i get very angry-shes calling his sister and his friends to find out why he hasnt called her and that she mises her and there's noone to sleep with her etc etc-I feel like sending all copies of her letters to her mom b/c she had been pretending to her mom like she is innocent little girl-me and my husband love each other and he had been good to me-no signs of cheating-waht do u think i should do-one part of me wants to forgive but the other part wants to expose her to her family. her family is in home country.